As a direct seller, I’m going to bet that one thing you want to do with your business is to leverage yourself through the actions of others - thereby establishing a residual income for yourself.
I’m also going to bet that you’ve heard (numerous times!) how important it is to duplicate yourself and to use a duplicatable system as you build your business.
Yes?????So here’s my question for you today…When it comes to duplication, are you duplicating abundance or are you, unknowingly and unintentionally, duplicating scarcity?In other words…
Is the foundation on which you are building your business one of abundance?There’s an old biblical saying that says, “You can’t pour new wine into an old wineskin” because the old wineskin will spoil the new wine.As a direct seller, the challenge for you, is to realize that the majority of people in your business (including, perhaps, yourself) might be unknowingly and unintentionally pouring the abundant “new wine” of your business opportunity into an “old wineskin” of scarcity!
When this happens, scarcity beliefs, patterns and ways of operating will become the “unintentional foundation” of your business and will be duplicated again and again!
For example, a majority of direct sellers regularly experience overwhelm, procrastination, inconsistency, struggle, frustration and less-than-desired results in their businesses. In fact, it’s not uncommon for them (and maybe I’m describing you) to consider any or all of these experiences to be a “normal” part of building a business!
The problem is that when you and/or one of your associates consider any of these experiences to be “normal” – you have instantly set yourself up to experience more of the same! When you and/or your associates begin to think (consciously OR subconsciously) that experiences like overwhelm, procrastination, fear and anxiety, inconsistency, and lack of motivation are “normal” - you have just made them an ongoing part of your reality. As a result, you will unintentionally duplicate these patterns when working with your prospects, customers and associates.
Consider a scenario that might occur when you first meet with a new associate and you ask her why she wants to be in your business and what she wants to achieve. Her response might simply be that she wants to make enough money to pay for her own products. Another typical response may be that she wants to make a couple hundred dollars each month to pay off some bills.
If so, how do you respond?
Do you respond by telling her to think and dream “bigger”? Do you start to tell her about how much more money she could make, e.g., $5,000 or $10,000, each month? Do you “write her off” as not being a leader or serious business builder?
It happens far too frequently throughout the industry. .
That’s why it’s important to remember the age-old success principle that says “whatever we focus on is what shows up and expands.” Thus, if you focus on scarcity in yourself or others, scarcity will show up and expand. Conversely, if you focus on abundance, abundance will result.
Given that, consider your response to your new associate. If you told her to dream “bigger” or you “wrote her off”, notice how YOUR focus was on scarcity. Notice how you “not enoughed” her goal or “why”. In the process, there’s a good chance you’ve just (unintentionally) “set up” your new associate to experience scarcity and struggle in her business - instead of abundance!
How?
Because now she is likely to begin to “not enough” herself and her dreams as well. This “not enough” pattern is likely to permeate her business, i.e., she will never take “enough” action, she won’t get “enough” done, she won’t have a “big enough” organization or a “big enough” commission check. All of this focus on scarcity will result in the “normal” yet not abundant experiences of pressure, overwhelm, fear, frustration, inconsistency and lack of motivation or results.
Imagine the difference if you had responded to her goal with enthusiasm, encouragement and acknowledgement. What if you told her that you will support her to achieve it? How would your prospect or new distributor feel about her goal, you and her new business opportunity? Can you sense how much more it would inspire her, keep her enthusiasm high, and have her feel better about her goal as well as her decision to begin her business?
Constantly focusing on scarcity will always disempower you and your associates. Only by focusing on abundance can you and/or your associates be empowered to learn, grow and take action.
That being the case, if you want to empower your prospects and associates to build and duplicate their business on a “foundation of abundance”, you must do the same for yourself. That means that you must focus on the abundance already in your life and within you. You must “enough” instead of “not enough” yourself. You must emphasize consistency over quantity and remember that doing “something” keeps you (and your associates) out of the “all or nothing” pattern of scarcity.
To do so is the hallmark of a true leader.
So - what’s your foundation?
Are you duplicating scarcity or abundance?
Teresa